Find Out If He’s Faking Love with Los Angeles Matchmakers
Ladies, as you already know, not everything that glitters is gold – Not even here in Los Angeles! In the LA dating world, you don’t always get what you hope for. And even when you think you found the perfect man, you could later find out he was just faking his love for you. Living in this glitzy city has taught our Los Angeles matchmakers many things. One being that there are many fake things around us, whether it’s a fake purse, a fake friend, or a fake man who is trying to do whatever it takes just to sleep with you.
Sadly, not many women are able to spot the signs of a man who is just playing the field. A lot of women in Los Angeles fall for sweet nothings and compliments. But don’t worry, our Los Angeles matchmakers are here to save you from this hassle and heartache. Today, we’ll show you the warning signs he’s faking his love for you.
We’re not here to tell you that all the single men in Los Angeles are bad fish, but there are plenty out there who do give men a bad name. As professional matchmakers and relationship coaches, we can’t let them take advantage of you, which is why we’re going to show you how to spot a man who simply wants to sleep with you and call it quits.
- He doesn’t take you on real dates.
If a man is serious about you and wants to date you, he’s going to take you on real dates. Yes, real dates. If you are currently seeing a guy and all you’ve done is spend time watching movies at his place which later turns into sex, then clearly that’s all he’s using you for. This should be a huge red flag waving right in front of your eyes. Asking you to meet him for drinks after 10pm is another red flag and doesn’t count as a date.
When a man is really into you, he’ll want the world to know. He’ll take you on real dates and spoil you like a princess. If he does not take you out for lunch or out on the town for dinner dates, then you need to rethink his intentions.
- He doesn’t sleep over or let you stay at his place.
Okay, so maybe he spends time at your house. But after he does the deed, you notice that he leaves right away. As a smart woman, you should realize this is a sign he’s only using you for sex. The same goes for staying at his place. If he kicks you out after doing the deed, then it’s clear that he doesn’t want to spend time with you. You are just a casual hookup to him, nothing serious. If a man is treating you like this, he isn’t serious about you and doesn’t see a romantic future with you.
- He doesn’t talk to you throughout the day.
When you’re in a healthy relationship, you and your man will talk several times throughout the day. He will send you good morning text messages and check up on you throughout the day to see how you’re doing. Our Los Angeles matchmakers aren’t saying that he needs to talk to you 24 hours a day, but he should at least call or text once or twice throughout the day. If he isn’t, then he’s not serious about you.
If you’re currently seeing a guy but only get calls from him to invite you over to his place at nighttime, or to come over to yours, then he’s only after sex.
- He only calls at night.
We’ll continue with the bullet point above. If a man only calls you at night and never throughout the day, he only has one thing on his mind… SEX! This is called a booty call; not love. He clearly doesn’t want to spend time with you, except between the sheets. If you are looking for a serious and meaningful relationship, then our Los Angeles matchmakers want you to stay far away from this type of guy. He is a wolf in sheep’s clothing and trying to take advantage of you.
- He doesn’t introduce you to his friends.
When a man is serious about you, he’ll be proud and want everyone to meet you, which means introducing you to his friends and family. If he tells you he loves you and hasn’t introduced you to a single one of his friends, and you’ve been together for several weeks or even months, he doesn’t really love you. It’s clear that he is trying to keep you a secret. If he only refers to you as “just a friend” when you run into someone he knows, then he clearly only sees you as a hookup partner.
- He doesn’t want to meet your friends and family.
Similar to the one above, if a man is serious about you, he’ll want to get to know those who are close to you. He will want to meet your friends and family. But on the contrary, if a man is only after you for sex, he won’t be interested in meeting people you know.
- He can’t keep his hands off you.
If every time you’re hanging out he jumps on top of you or he can’t keep his hands off of you, then you should see this as a major red flag. It’s fascinating to have a man who shows his interest in you, especially if you haven’t dated in a while. But don’t confuse real interest with fake love and sex. If a man only wants to hook up with you and never wants to do anything else, then he is only after you for sex. If the only thing he talks about is sex and getting it on, then it’s time to cut this guy off.
Ladies, you don’t have to put yourself through the misery of dating men like this. There are plenty of single men in Los Angeles who are genuinely interested in a meaningful relationship. Here at Los Angeles Singles Dating Service, that’s the only type of guy we work with. If you’re tired of meeting duds and ready to meet eligible, relationship-minded men, fill out the private survey on our homepage and let our Los Angeles matchmakers be the ones to introduce you to them!