Top 5 Dating Resolutions for Singles in Los Angeles in 2018

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The single life is very difficult, and that’s putting it mildly.  When all your friends and family circles are starting to dwindle, it’s time to do it on your own.  We know that your mind can start to swivel and spiral into a blackhole of self-doubt.  We know how challenging it is to date today.  Dating can become exhausting, expensive, and downright dreadful.

In between fruitless dates, ghosting, and many heartbreaks, it’s easy to get discouraged and give up hope on dating.  Why should you keep going?  It’s much easier to stay single than face the frustration of the Los Angeles dating scene, right?  Why should you put yourself through another heartbreak when it feels like there’s no hope in sight?  If you’re one of the thousands of singles in Los Angeles who is looking for love in the new year, we encourage you to adopt these dating resolutions in 2018.  This list will give you the fresh start and new approach you need to be successful in your dating life.

  1. Say Yes More Often


Say yes to spontaneous hangouts, to more second dates, to random party invitations, or even weekend getaways with your friends.  Put yourself in different situations when opportunities come knocking at your door—not just with the sole purpose of looking for a partner but just because.

  1. Don’t Settle for Anything Less Than You Deserve


When you’ve been single for a long time, it’s very easy to become attached to the first person who shows interest in you or date someone just for the sake of dating.  Stay true to what you’re looking for, even if it takes years to find it.  If someone is attractive but totally inappropriate, don’t give them a chance.  Allow yourself to become confident with someone’s character before you commit to them.  You will save yourself from future heartbreaks because no one has time for a heartache.

  1. Challenge Yourself to Be Better


Would you date that person staring back at you in the mirror right now?  If you wouldn’t, now is the time to work on whatever you’re struggling with.  Learn to trust in yourself and become confident.  Whether it’s physical, psychological, or personal interest, strive to become the best version of yourself so you can attract the perfect partner.

  1. Have an Open Heart


Everyone is guilty of having a certain type.  Tall, athletic, wealthy, you name it and the list on.  Everyone makes the mistake of dismissing potential candidates too soon.  Make 2018 the year you open your heart.  You never know when love can grow, so make sure you’re open to that possibility.

  1. Don’t Hate This Single Life


Yes, we know it’s easier said than done, especially if you’ve been flying solo for a long time.  We know how frustrating it is to meet people who tell you they want to be with you and only end up taking advantage and hurting your heart.  But becoming overly consumed with your relationship status won’t do you any good.  Instead, learn to be perfectly fine and fulfilled on your own because the best relationship you can have is with yourself.

If you want 2018 to be the year you finally find love, then you must adopt these dating resolutions in your love life.  If you’re struggling to meet quality singles in Los Angeles, contact our LA matchmakers today and let us help you with your dating resolutions and provide you hand-selected dates with compatible local singles.  We’ve helped thousands of singles in LA find love, and we’re confident we can help you too.

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