Los Angeles Matchmakers Reveal 4 Signs He’s Going to Cheat

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Your boyfriend is acting differently, but you just can’t put your finger on why.  Then, his cell phone rings real late at night and he doesn’t tell you who it is.  We’ve all heard the old “he blames you for cheating” and “his cell phone has a new password” behaviors of cheating men, but those are pretty obvious.

Do you think your boyfriend is getting ready to cheat on you? Let our Los Angeles matchmakers show you telltale signs he’s getting ready to cheat.

  1. He Works Late Without Telling You


It’s completely normal to work late every once in a while.  It’s not normal for your boyfriend to know he’s going to stay late at work all week and not mention it to you.

Whether you live together or see each other after work, it’s only polite for you know what time he’s going to be home. If you’re sitting there with no clue where he’s at after you just prepared him his favorite meal (the one that’s now getting cold), that’s not acceptable.  This proves that he doesn’t care about or respect your time. He doesn’t even feel like he needs to check in with you and probably doesn’t want to.

  1. He Doesn’t Talk About the Future


Sure, you don’t have to talk about getting engaged or married if you just started dating each other, but it’s only natural to want some idea of what your future would look like together.  No one would ever blame you for wanting to talk about the future.  Your boyfriend should feel happy and excited to talk about the future.  After all, this is something you need to do to ensure you are both on the same page.

If your boyfriend refuses to talk about the future and only thinks about the here and now, it’s possible that he’s not thinking long-term with you.  And that just might mean he’s not going to be loyal and faithful.  He doesn’t consider you a big part of his life, which means he could cheat any day.

  1. He Puts Married Couples Down


It’s a total cliché that guys hate the idea of getting married and dread the thought of settling down.  Unfortunately, the stereotype of guys thinking that they’ll be whipped is still strong.  If your boyfriend complains about married couples and acts like his married friends live horrible lives, that’s something you need to watch out for.

You might not think it’s a big deal, especially if you’re not looking to get married right now, but it proves that he isn’t ready for anything serious.  It also proves that he doesn’t believe two people can live happily together for the rest of their lives.  With a bad attitude like that, why wouldn’t he stray?

  1. He Complains You Don’t Give Him Space


Partners who are really in love with each other and have a good thing going aren’t going to talk about needing more space.  It just would never happen because they love spending time with each other.  They know that spending too much time apart would be dull and kind of boring.  Plus, they know they’re in a relationship, which means spending quality time together.

If your boyfriend says he wants to spend more time alone or that you don’t give him enough space, it’s very possible that he’s thinking about cheating on you (if he isn’t already). It shows that he’s feeling trapped in the relationship and that he’s not happy with you.  It hurts to realize this now, but it’s better to know sooner rather than later, right?

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