Hollywood Hills Matchmakers | How to Tell He’s Only Temporary

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Men can be very difficult to figure out. Is your guy a total sweetheart, but acts a little strange from time to time? Do you ever wonder if you’re just another woman in his contact book? It might be easy to brush off his slip-ups and rationalize his frequent cancellations and mid-night phone calls, but you should start to see these signs as huge red flags. You might not be the only one he’s seeing.

You could be involved with a player – a guy who has a lot of women in rotation.

Today, our Hollywood Hills matchmakers are going to show you the telltale warning signs he’s only temporary.

  1. He’s only affectionate when he wants something.


And that something is usually you know what. If your relationship doesn’t have real affection like kissing, holding hands, and cuddling, but you do have plenty of fun in the bedroom, then it might just be a sign that your partner is only temporary. Affection is a way to be intimate and grow close together, but if your partner is only interested in the main course, they are only interested in sex.

  1. He doesn’t want to get to know you.


Can he name your favorite book, movies, music, or anything about you that is meaningful? Does he want to hear your thoughts and opinions on certain things? Is he interested in getting to know you? If you can’t definitely answer “yes” to those questions, then that’s a huge red flag that this guy is only temporary.

  1. He doesn’t take you on real dates.


If you only ever hang out at his place or yours and call that a date, it might be a sign that he’s only interested in having sex with you. After all, hanging out at the house means that you can get intimate together faster. If he doesn’t want to invest time with you outside of your house or his, it means he’s only interested in you for sex.

  1. He doesn’t bring you around his friends or family.


Not even once. Any time you bring it up, he changes the subject. When someone is using you for your body, they’re not invested in having you meet their friends and family. The less information you know about him the easier it is for him to ghost you down the road. If you don’t know who he spends time with or where his family lives or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night.

  1. He keeps his mask on and doesn’t let you in.


This one can be hard to identify. Wearing a mask is basically like hiding things about yourself. Sometimes it’s because we don’t want to be vulnerable in front of our partners, or because our partner doesn’t want to be vulnerable in front of us.

If the guy you’re dating doesn’t show you who he really is, he’s only temporary, and unfortunately there’s not much you can do about it. If your guy has trust issues, all you can do is be yourself. If that doesn’t inspire him to take the mask off, then it’s just not meant to be.

  1. He looks at other women.


Isn’t it obvious? If he’s looking at beautiful women, then this guy is just temporary. When people are in exclusive relationships, a fundamental shift occurs in how they unconsciously manage their attentional outlets. When an attractive woman walks by, he shouldn’t be checking her out. If your love interest doesn’t have eyes only for you, it could be a sign that he’s just a passing fling.

So, tell us, how does your new love interest measure up? Do you see some of these red flags in his behavior? Ugh, if so, it’s time to kick his butt to the curb. You deserve so much more!

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in Los Angeles, contact our Hollywood Hills matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!