Beverly Hills Matchmakers Reveal the Ultimate Cheat Sheet
You’ve been in and out of relationships for the past few months and you feel very disappointed to see each one fail. You are starting to wonder why this is happening to you. Why can’t you just find a good guy to settle down with.
This is probably not the first time you’ve read this blog. But the fact that you are here today tells us that you still haven’t got it right – and that you care. That you really want to have a long-lasting relationship that is cheat proof and full of love.
We are going to break it down for you as simple as possible. Our Beverly Hills matchmakers have some tips to help you cheat proof your relationship once and for all.
- Eliminate your ex.
They hurt you at lot and that is painful. They were brutal and crushed your heart without a second thought. You feel betrayed by them. You feel used. Stop it right there. Re-read the sentence above. Noticing a pattern? Did you notice that everything having to do with them is negative? Every single word associated with them is negative.
This is not helpful. You need to finally let go of your ex. And by that we mean let go of your ex completely. Throw old photos in the trash, delete them from your social media accounts, and tear down the love letters you displayed so proudly. It doesn’t matter how close you are with them, you need to get rid of them for good.
- Empty out your own thoughts.
You already burned all the pictures and love letters, but you still have thoughts and memories haunting you every day. You go to sleep fearing that you will dream about them and relive some of those good memories. Remember, he chose to turn those dreams into nightmares and cause you pain. You don’t deserve this. Start eliminating these thoughts as quickly as possible. Do some yoga, meditate, or even hangout with your friends. Try anything you can to distract yourself and let go of your ex for good.
- Find someone new to date.
Now that are free of your ex, it’s time to move on and start dating someone new. Go out with friends, ask them to introduce you to someone who they think would be a good fit for you. Try a matchmaking service or head out to wine tasting events in your area. The idea is to put yourself out there and meet new people.
- Be honest.
Ok so you’ve finally started dating someone. And he’s kind and respectful. And you want to impress him. Quit the temptation of selling yourself as the next big thing. Don’t lie about your age or your hobbies and interests. Don’t lie about your work or anything else. Each time you lie to them, it’s lying to yourself. Sooner or later, all these lies will come out to the surface. You don’t want to build a relationship based on lies.
- Learn to trust him.
Your previous relationships left deep scars on your heart. Your brain wants to take over and analyze everything now. Why did he say those things? What is he hiding? When did he move into town? Who was he dating before me? What is he not telling me? Stop it! You need to quit over-analyzing everything and learn to trust them. As a human being with feelings, you are afraid of getting your heart broken. But remember that he didn’t break your heart. He is someone new.
- Open up with him.
Once you decide to trust them, there is no turning back. You have to open up now. You have to bring down the wall around your heart and make yourself vulnerable again. By opening up, you make deposits in the relationship bank. The more deposits you make, the higher credit you build. And you will need those eventually.
- Be grateful.
The last trick to add to our arsenal is to always be grateful. You should be enjoying your relationship, which can develop into a lasting one. Stand still for a moment and be grateful for everything you have done so far. That’s right! It was you who made this relationship possible.
We wish you nothing but the best of luck on your dating journey. Be sure to keep up to date with our latest dating and relationship advice by liking us on Facebook.
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