Mature Dating in Los Angeles | Top 3 Signs You Can’t Trust Him

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Mature dating in Los Angeles is much tougher than it used to be. And when you finally find someone with whom you have fun, you question where things will lead. Is he serious about dating or just having some fun? What does he want out of dating? Can he be trusted?

A new relationship will always come across its fair share of bumps along the way. But you know yourself; you’re tuned into those little things a guy says and does which send up red flags.

If you find yourself questioning whether your guy is trustworthy, read on.

Today, our Los Angeles matchmakers are going to show you the top signs you can’t trust him and need to walk away.

  1. He gives you vague answers for everything.

Now, vagueness is one of those things that can be confusing in the beginning stages of dating. After all, it takes time to get to know someone new, and shyness can be a factor in vague answers.

But after you’ve gotten to know each other better and grown comfortable with one another, you should be honest and forthright. If you’ve reached that point with your guy and he’s still very vague in his answers and stories, you need to question his “shyness.” Doesn’t sound like it’s shyness at all.

  1. He never wants to do anything with anyone else.

Having alone time and solo dates is undoubtedly important for a relationship. However, it’s important you do things with people other than yourselves all the time.

Whether you’re wanting to introduce your new beau to your friends or family, or suggesting new dates ideas, he should be receptive. If he’s always trying to keep the dates between the two of you, and always in private places, it’s time to think about why. If the next time you suggest a group date, something new, or hanging out with friends he shrugs it off, you need to say something. You need to sit down and talk to him about it. If he doesn’t change, walk away.

  1. He isn’t interested in your life.

The excitement you get from dating someone new can be a little bit complicated. Why? Because you want to be fun and interesting so you can leave a lasting impression. Sometimes, we get carried away and talk about ourselves too much, all in an effort to sound busy and interesting. But sometimes that is taken too far and comes off as selfish.

If your guy does nothing but talk about himself and doesn’t really care to know anything about your life, he’s not worth your time. You need to find someone who is interested in getting to know you and hearing your life story. This doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not trustworthy in a sense that he isn’t going to be loyal to you, but it is a sign that he’s not ready for a serious relationship. Serious relationships take efforts and hard work from both people involved. Relationships can’t be one-sided. If he is the only one getting to talk and doesn’t care to know anything about you, then it’s completely one-sided.

Do you notice any of these three signs? If so, it’s time to question this guy’s real motives in dating.

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