Not every man you encounter in the LA dating scene is going to be serious about dating you. Unfortunately, (thanks to online dating sites & mobile dating apps) some men are only after casual hookups. Men are much more capable of having a purely sexual relationship than women are. Are some women out there only after sex? Sure, there might be a few of them out there, but the majority of women in LA want something serious and meaningful.
There are many men out there who only want to hook up and have zero interest in a relationship. They don’t want to meet your father, they don’t want to shower you with gifts or compliments, and they definitely don’t want to cuddle on a Friday night. So what can you do to prevent yourself from falling for a man like this? Today, our Los Angeles matchmakers will show you six signs he’s only after you for sex. If you spot these hookup red flags, save yourself the heartache and run as fast as you can.
1. You Only See Him at Night
One of the biggest signs you’re nothing more than a hookup buddy is if you only see him at night. It’s clear that he’s doing other things because you’re friends with him on social media, so why does he never want to do anything with you? The only time you see him is when it gets dark. If that sounds like your current love interest, then you know you’re just a hookup. It’s time to move on.
2. He Leaves Before the Sun Rises
If he’s only with you for sex, then he definitely won’t stick around for the sunrise. He’ll be out as soon as he’s done with the deed. Even if he promises you he’ll spend the night, he’ll disappear right before you get up to make him breakfast. If a man cuddles you, spends the night with you, gets up early and makes you breakfast, well, congrats to you. That’s a surefire sign he wants to spend time with you. However, when a guy is only after sex, he won’t bother sticking around.
3. He Only Texts You at Night
Along the same lines of only seeing you at night, he’ll only text you at night. He will only text you once you’re already in bed watching TV because he’s looking for a late-night hookup. He doesn’t want a relationship, nothing of the sort. Oh, no, he’s just looking for some quick sex.
4. He Asks for Nude Pictures
Warning, ladies! The easiest way to spot a man who is only after you for sex is by the things he says on texts. Does he send you text messages throughout the day asking you for nude pictures? If so, then he’s only after you for sex. He is clearly only interested in your body. If he wanted a relationship with you, he would want to spend time getting to know you. He would ask how your day is going and see what you’re up to later because he genuinely wants to see you and spend time with you.
5. He Doesn’t Introduce You to His Family
If he wanted you to be his girlfriend, he would bring you around his family to show them the wonderful new woman in his life. After all, every man seeks their family’s approval when they’re dating a new woman. If you’ve been together for some time now and have never met his family (come to think about it don’t even know their names), we hate to break it to you but a relationship is not on his mind. The same goes with his friends.
6. He Doesn’t Tell You What He’s Up To
If he wanted to be in a serious relationship with you, then he wouldn’t hesitate to answer your messages—no matter what he was doing or how busy he was. If you ask him a question, he’ll have no problem answering it. It’s as simple as that. That’s what couples do. Couples tell each other what they’re doing throughout the day, but a guy who is only after you for sex won’t bother telling you what he’s doing, where he’s at, or what’s on his agenda.
We know that the last thing you want to do is end up on the receiving end of a hookup. But now that you know how to spot a man who is only after you for sex, we know you’ll steer clear of them in the LA dating scene.
If you’re tired of meeting men who are only after you for sex and would like to meet relationship-minded men who will take you seriously, contact our Los Angeles matchmakers today. Let us introduce you to amazing men who are fit and ready to start a serious and meaningful relationship. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!