Redondo Beach Matchmaking Service | 5 Signs He’s a Clinger

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Did you just start to see someone new? Maybe you’ve had one, two, or even three dates with him… But something feels off. You can’t put your finger on it, but you know something isn’t quite right.

Our Redondo Beach matchmaking service know that if your new love interest meets this criteria, it’s time to abandon ship. 

Are you ready to find out what’s going on? Do you want to put an end to your doubts and concerns?

Top 5 Warning Signs He’s a Clinger!

Today our Redondo Beach matchmaking service is going to show you the telltale warning signs he’s stage five clinger. Run!

  1. He is an instigator.

Nothing in life is easy, right? But it could be – some just like to complicate things. Prime example would be when the new guy you’re seeing picks a fight with a girl that he just started talking to and the relationship didn’t even start yet.

If you just started seeing a guy or are just casually dating someone and he is starting drama with you for no reason at all, it is a sign he’s totally a stage five clinger.

The next-level clinger will argue with you if it means getting your attention. Is that normal? No. Should you kick this guy to the curb? Yes.

  1. He’s way too romantic.

You finished your first date and were feeling wonderful about it. But then the next day, he is outside your house with five dozen roses and a huge box of chocolates.

Only in the movies can such gestures be welcomed with open arms. But in the real world, well, that’s totally weird.

These over the top gestures that happen early on, like the day after your first date, are a sign that he is a stage five clinger. If He wants to buy you off by giving you lavish gifts all the time, don’t fall for it. A little surprise is great, but look out for overly romantic gestures.

  1. He stalks you on social media.

Social media is huge today. We all share our lives on these popular platforms every day. We share what we’re doing, where we are, we post vacation pictures and let people into our world. This may sound a little weird, but everyone is doing it.

Now you went on date with a guy, or you just started seeing him, and he is the first one to like all your pictures and comments on everything you do. In fact, he literally went back and liked all your pictures from last year. He is pretty much hounding you on your social media page. And you know what that means? Look out, he is a stage five clinger.

  1. He hates it when you spend time with friends.

No man should make you feel like you can’t spend time with the people you love, especially if it’s just enjoying a day with your family. If he does, because he is selfish and wants you all to himself, you better nip it in the bud. Why? Because you have a stage five clinger on your hands.

After three dates, no man should push for limits by making you feel guilty that you’re spending quality time with your friends or family. If he acts like it is, tell him where to go. Trust us, it’s only going to get worse from here. He will try to isolate you until he’s the only one left in your world.

  1. Your phone never stops going off.

You just started seeing this guy and he just doesn’t want to let you alone. Seriously, your phone is constantly going off. Although you may have thought it was cute at first when he sent you a good morning or goodnight text, it’s getting annoying. He’s out of control with his texts and phone calls. Take it from us, this is a clear warning sign of insecurity and jealousy. He’s already trying to keep tabs on you and things will only get worse down the road.

So how many of these warning signs do you see in the new guy you’re seeing? Is he a clinger? Kick him to the curb!

Tired of dating stage five clingers and men who aren’t fit for a relationship? Want to meet mem who are emotionally stable to date? Contact our Redondo Beach matchmaking service today and let us help. Let us do the hard work of dating for you – screening, background checks, and compatibility tests ensure you only meet men who are a perfect fit for you.

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