Hollywood Hills Dating Service | 5 Signs You’re Not in Love


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Love isn’t in the cards for some couple, even if they have been together for a long time. Our Hollywood Hills dating service knows this happens more often than we would like. Unfortunately, it is possible to fall out of love with someone that you once thought you could never live without.

5 Signs You’re Not in Love

Today, our Los Angeles matchmakers are going to show you the top signs you’ve fallen out of love.

  1. You don’t have anything in common.

The saying “opposites attract” is kind of confusing, right? While there are some couples who can make their relationship work without having anything in common, other people believe that you need a lot of common in order to make the relationship work.

You’re probably not in love with your boyfriend when you realize that you don’t have anything in common with each other. You don’t like the same TV shows, the same movies, or the same sports. In fact, you don’t even like sports. Bottom line: you have nothing in common. This makes it very difficult to maintain a happy and healthy relationship because one of you is always compromising to make the other happy. And if it’s always the same person compromising, it gets tiring. Or worse, you don’t compromise and you each do your own thing. What is the point in that kind of relationship?

  1. You don’t tell them about your plans.

Being in a committed relationship definitely means that there should be a mutual level of respect for each other. You should tell your boyfriend everything about your life, and that includes the upcoming dinner you have with your bestie. It’s just the polite thing to do.

If you never tell him what your social plans are until right before you walk out the door, that’s a sign you’ve fallen out of love. It proves that you’re not in love with him, which shows because you could care about what he thinks. Unfortunately, he isn’t a part of your life anymore.

  1. You don’t remember anything he says.

If you don’t remember anything that your boyfriend tells you, that’s a surprising red flag that proves you’re probably not in love with him anymore. There are so many ways to tell yourself this is normal. You can say that you’re too tired because you’ve been working long days, that you don’t talk as much as you used to, etc.

While of course, it’s totally normal to forget a few things here and there, you want to pay attention to everything your partner says. If you loved him, you would want to remember as much information as possible. However, if you don’t remember anything he tells you or anything that’s going on in his life, that’s because he’s not important enough for you to actually listen.

  1. You wish he would change.

Do you wish that your boyfriend had a different style of clothing? Do you wish he had a different hairstyle? Maybe he’s super preppy and that’s not what you like, or maybe he likes to dress down, which is embarrassing to you. No matter what he does, you just don’t like it anymore.

Feeling this way proves that you’re no longer in love with him. You want to be with someone who you never have to change. While you might not love every single thing about his closet, you shouldn’t want to change his entire look. This is a sign that you have fallen out of love.

  1. You make excuses not to spend time with him.

If you’ve reached the point where you no longer look forward to spending time with him, that’s a real problem. And that problem is even worse if you do everything you can to avoid spending time with him. From working late to yoga classes or washing your car to doing absolutely nothing all by yourself, you always manage to get out of hanging out with him.

While there is nothing wrong wanting some time to yourself, if you never want to spend time with your partner, that’s a major warning sign. It’s a warning sign you can’t ignore. You need to cut ties and go your separate ways. It’s not fair to either one of you to keep dragging things out.

It happens. Sometimes there’s just nothing you can do about it. Even if you once thought you would spend the rest of your life with this person, you can’t help falling out of love. It’s just not meant to be.

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