Los Angeles Matchmakers | Dating Resolutions for LA Singles

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Want to break your dating dry spell for once and for all? Ready to meet LA singles who are serious about dating too? Want to find true love in 2020? Why not make 2020 the year you finally do things right? Let our Los Angeles matchmakers show you the best dating resolutions for LA singles in the new year.

Although a season traditionally associated with festive times, drinks, and family get-togethers, the start of the new year can be very lonely for singles. With everyone else so happy in their relationships and openly flaunting their personal relationships on social media, being single at this time of the year can be sad and depressing.

As if that wasn’t enough, you can bet your every dollar that family members are going to ask you about your single status and why you can’t find love.

Don’t worry, we got you!

Today, our Los Angeles matchmakers are going to reveal the top dating resolutions for LA singles to find love in 2020.

  1. Let go of negative dating behaviors.

Without wanting to point any fingers, there may be something about you that is turning potential candidates away. You might already be able to identify some of them. If not, then it might be time to talk to a good friend of yours and get their honest opinion. Behaviors that are responsible for turning candidates away include being too loud, drinking too much alcohol, being too clingy, and talking too much without listening to your date. See if you can figure out any dating flaws you might be flaunting to your dates.

  1. Reinvent yourself.

This is a little similar to the first dating resolution. But whereas that one dealt with your negative behaviors, this resolution deals with your positive ones. There might not be anything particularly wrong with your personality, but there might not be anything great about it either. Now’s the perfect time to work on yourself and become the best version that you can be.

Resolve to work on your body language and speech patterns in order to come off as a smooth, new you. Take up a new hobby or interest. Go to the gym and shed those extra five pounds you put on over the holidays. Learn a new language. The sky is the limit when it comes to finding activities to help you become a better you.

  1. Look for the right person.

Sounds obvious, right? Easier said than done. This is why it’s key to know what you want in a partner. If you have no clue what you want in a relationship, you will keep attracting the wrong type of people. Draw up a list that you definitely want in a partner, along with things you don’t want. Don’t make the list too specific, but don’t resort to common generalizations either. Instead, pick a few must haves and a few no ways. Having deal breakers will help you weed out the wrong candidates and save you time and frustrations on your search.

  1. Lower your expectations.

Too many LA singles go about dating all wrong. In other words, they’ll only be happy with a partner who looks like a super model, is rich and has the brains of a surgeon. Resolve to be more realistic with your dating expectations if you want to find love in 2020. Go for people you normally wouldn’t go for in 2020 and you may be pleasantly surprised. We’re not telling you to let go of all dating expectations. Absolutely not, that would be counterproductive. We just want you to be more realistic with what you want in a partner.

  1. Listen more.

Nothing turns people off more than not being listened to. If you’re determined to air your vibes at the expense of the natural nature of a conversation, then prepare to be single in 2020. Not only does listening show that you respect them, but it also shows that you are interested in getting to know them better. Make 2020 the year you do more listening to your dates. There will be plenty of time for you to talk, but never steal the show.

No one wants to be single forever. And no matter how much it seems like that’s all that fate has for you, it’s not. Take these dating resolutions from our Los Angeles matchmakers and make 2020 the year you find love.

If you’re single and need some expert help in your romantic life, let 2020 be the year you try something new. Expand your horizons and let our Los Angeles matchmakers do the hard work of dating for you. Let us introduce you to LA singles who are serious about dating and a perfect match for you!

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